People need to be affirmed. When children are praised, they will feel that they are affirmative, so they will have self-confidence. It will be easier to be confident when they start things and they will not be easily defeated. Those who are affirmed will be more likely to show positive and optimistic behaviors. On the contrary, children who are often denied are more likely to be pessimistic and negative. Children who are often praised by their parents will agree with their parents. Therefore, they will care more about their family and affection. Therefore, they can establish a good relationship between parents and children. Children who are often praised are more adventurous and try new things, so they are learning. Will be more active, usually the results will be better, if the child is often scolded, denied, it is easy to affect his mentality of learning new things. However, there are many places where children need to pay attention. For example, when children are praised, they cannot be blindly compared. Children have different conditions and their starting points are different. It is obviously unfair to compare children with others. Moreover, today you praised the children as the class. The best, and tomorrow he could not reach today's level, the heart may be depressed, which virtually put pressure on the child. Children recognize themselves in the evaluation of others. Such a large and empty compliment does not give the child a clear-cut feeling, but may cause him blind confidence. Recognizing the child's process is more likely to arouse the child's sympathy than recognizing the results he obtained. It's easy for him to understand whether you pay more attention to whether he's working hard, pay attention to his bit by bit, and slowly help him build confidence. By refining the process, reinforcing every little success he has achieved, and finding ways to deal with the weaknesses, the child can overcome every setback and calm the difficulty. When praising children, be careful not to put too much pressure on your child's "history". Recognizing your child's "achievement" achievement is to motivate him to obtain more "not yet achieved" achievements. Praise is to establish a "going ahead" goal for the child, rather than establishing a "can't step down" standard for the child: After the child has achieved good results, the parent should not ask the child "you must maintain the current state." Don't be “pretty much†and praise yourself too freely. For example, “You are awesome, you are really smart.†Such praise, parents often say well. In the face of children, parents do not praise them. On the surface, there is a certain encouragement for children, but if you say so much at random, it will make the child follow the parents' reasoning: I did a good thing, so I was a good boy; I took a high score. , so I am a smart child. However, according to the parents' thinking, the child may further make the "opposite" reasoning: If I do something wrong, then I am a bad boy; I got a low score in an exam and I am a stupid child. This kind of "partially-appropriate" reward will make the child mistakenly evaluate the success or failure of a thing as a personal evaluation. When recognizing a child, it is important to pay attention to the fact that it is not the right person, to praise his efforts without complimenting his intelligence, and to praise the process of doing things without complimenting his results. For more information, please return to the company's official website of Sports Equipment Co., Ltd. Advisory telephone. The company's pleasure and dedication to serve you! Factory address: No. 16, Chuangqiang Road, Lucheng District, Wenzhou City Light Industry Park. Robots Bubble Wand,Bubble Making Machine,Bubble Maker Toy,Handheld Bubble Machine Shantou Chenghai LeTime Trading Co., Ltd , https://www.letimetoys.com
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